FAQ - The Myah Lyn Experience

Common Questions from clients, submissives & industry workers.

Patrons & Sponsors (companionship)

“When will you be visiting my area?”

It depends. When I tour, it’s based on my personal preference for location and weather, or if there are festivities I want to participate in. I keep my social media accounts & newsletter updated on the places I will be. Occasionally, I will post a poll asking where I am most wanted and will visit the city that receives the most pre-bookings.

The only way to guarantee my visit to your area is to schedule my TTY (travel to you) or a sponsored tour. Please see my rates + booking page for more details.

“What are your expectations of a client?”
“What if I am 65+, or have ED/mobility aid/skin condition, or immunocompromised, etc.?”

My only expectation is respect. If you respect my boundaries, we will get along just fine. One of my major boundaries is maintaining cleanliness, especially in terms of oral health. It is recommended to visit your dentist every 6 months to avoid periodontal diseases, which can go unnoticed without professional care. I expect all suitors to arrive freshly showered with clean hair, groomed nails, and a clean mouth. If you are not up to par, you will either need to bathe again, brush your teeth, or both. I always have spare toothbrushes and mouthwash available for incalls. I have the right to deny services if your hygiene is not to my standard.

As for age/mobility/ED/skin conditions, etc., I can certainly accommodate and would love to curate a memorable experience with you. As long as you are 21+, your ability, race/nationality, appearance, gender, religion, tax bracket, and any other demographic information are in no way a determining factor for whether or not I will meet you. You do not need to disclose any of this; however, I do ask that you notify me if using a wheelchair/mobility aid and booking an incall, so I can ensure my place is suitable for you. I am COVID-19 vaccinated and happy to do a mutually masked session for the immunocompromised, or upon request.

For skin conditions: I have experience with individuals dealing with eczema, shingles/psoriasis, etc. It is not necessary to disclose these to me, but please note I may request you to take a shower upon arrival. I simply ask that you do not book me if you have any open wounds/sores, as this will result in cancellation/rescheduling.

“Dream first date?”

I have many! Like I said, my bucket list is extensive, and I love traveling!

Dining

NYC – Sushi Noz, MISIPASTA, Cathédrale, Continent Brooklyn

BOS – Smith & Wollensky, Uni, La Padrona, Marky’s Caviar

D.C – Chez Billy Sud, Gypsy Kitchen, Astoria, Pascual, SUCCOTASH

CHI – Demera, Tzuco, Roka Akor, 3 Arts Club Cafe, Fioretta

Detroit – Cibo, Symposia, Vecino, Joe Muer Seafood

MIA – Amara at Paraiso, MILA, Versace Mansion, Rusty Pelican

ATL – Little Alley Steak, C&S Seafood/Oyster Bar, Verdure Kitchen

SF/Bay – The Rotunda, The Palm Court, Ula Tapas, 7Adams

LAX – 71Above, Lucia, Meteora, The Little Door

Vegas – Mott 32, Mother Wolf, Michael’s, Eiffel Tower

Activities

A party on your boat (the more ladies, the merrier)!

Wine Tasting at a Vineyard

A sip & paint picnic date!

Amusement/theme parks, I love the rush!

Stroll through the High Museum in Atlanta

Taking a walk through Montreal Botanical Garden Quebec, CA

Horse riding to the sunset in Cali, Colombia

Riding a Belmond Pullman Train through the Swiss Alps

Explore the “coffee shops” of Amsterdam

Delve into the Carlsbad Caves of New Mexico

Getaways

(Most of these are all-inclusive, because my dream getaway is spontaneous and free! No worries of where to eat or outside expenses… sets the mood.)

Castle Hot Springs – Morristown, AZ

Bungalows – Key Largo, FL

Amangiri – Canyon Point, Utah

Post Ranch Inn – Big Sur, California

Hedonism II – Negril, Jamaica

Naviva – Punta Mita, Mexico

Rockhouse – Turks & Caicos

Sabi Sabi Earth Lodge – South Africa

The Europe Hotel Resort – Kerry, Ireland

The Singapore EDITION – Singapore

“You are remarkable! – How can I see you again?”

If you have previously filled out my booking form, passed screening & have already met with me, you may text or email me (please reply to the most recent email exchange between us). Please include the amount of time you would like to spend together, as well as the date and time ranges of your availability. I will get back to you within 48 hours. Do not call me and do not submit another booking form if you have done so previously.

“Do you provide and/or accept references?“

I do not accept references. This is because one person’s experience with someone is not universal to how they will treat everyone, people change overtime, and not every provider is honest when supplying one (ex: some people will lie so you don’t “steal” their regular. I have even heard of providers offering discounts when asked for a reference, to encourage the client to stick with them). So no, I do not accept references. I will need real-world information in order to verify who I am meeting, that you are an adult, and have no alarming record. If you are uncomfortable with that, I am uncomfortable with meeting you.

I will, however, provide a reference for you (1 per visit, up to 3 months subsequent). After every date, I make a diary entry to reflect on our experience, and so I have a record of how things went. If you would like a reference, please ask me first. I will not provide a reference after 3 months of our last date, for the same reasons I do not accept them. Do NOT give out my contact information without permission; privacy and discretion are crucial. Doing this will result in a ban from ever seeing me again.

submissives (BDSM & Kink Play)

“What if I don’t know what I like yet?”

That is completely fine; if anything, it’s preferred. We can take our time figuring that out together. I suggest booking 3 hours or more to ensure comfort and less time constraints, and you may include “newbie” in the notes section of your booking form. Once a date and deposit are agreed upon, I always allow for a ~15-minute call before session to ensure all parties are in agreement. Feel free to request a longer call if you have more extensive questions.

If you arrive with zero knowledge of your interests, we will start with mine. Starting with the more gentle ones, of course, and we can progress depending on your response to said stimulation. I have no problem making you my little play toy for as long and as much as you can withstand (why safe words and practices are essential).

“This would be my first time seeking a dominatrix. How do I prepare?”

Well, well… look who finally gave in to their dark side. Life is so much better when you surrender, especially to a superior Ebony God.

Preparation is simple: show up with respect and a willingness to follow my lead. You don’t need experience, simply daze yourself with my every command, and speak when spoken to, and only then. Thoroughly read about Myah at Dusk (link) and get acquainted with how I begin a session. Show seriousness and commitment. Feel free to include that this is your first domme session within your booking form. Every submissive has different needs, and I aim to maintain a non-judgmental space for all. Just remember, eagerness is cute, but obedience is required. Let go. Give in. You WILL thank me, during and afterwards.

“Is pain required to be submissive to you?”

While I do enjoy occasionally inflicting pain and making you beg, my style leans more towards psychological, financial, and emotional control. I prefer slow, deliberate torment and find joy in teasing you with tenderness, punishing you with a smile, and watching you unravel. Please see here for my interests and limits.

I will be honest, the more extreme forms of play, like needles, sound, and knife play, do not appeal to me whatsoever. No judgment at all, they are simply not in alignment with my energy or intentions. My intention is to devour you in ways that feel intoxicating, and just a little cruel. So no, pain is never required to submit to me.

“How can I devote myself to you? / Long-term Servitude”

Simple. Put your money where your mouth is. Meaning, continue to book me for extended sessions, use your salary to check off my wish-list, random cash sends every time you think of me, etc. Tattoo my name on your ass for all I care. You need to make yourself valuable to me (which you literally can only do monetarily or with servitude). I am open to long-term service-oriented submissives for the following roles: chauffeur, shopping sprees, personal chef/waiter/bartender, grocery shopping, researcher (Black history & Sex Work oriented), and content subs (for photoshoots only). Inquire using my booking form and include “service sub – (the role desired)” in the notes section.

Small gestures would include tipping after session, reposting my social media posts or posting your gratitude for me, and bringing snacks or drinks I like to session.

“Can I meet Myah at Dawn if I previously met her at Dusk?

No, I will not see you in an intimate setting if you have previously submitted to me. This is because I am not sexually attracted to submissive men. I like to get freaky, steamy, and close. Sadly, I cannot see you in that light once you have submitted to me. I will, however, pound you out 😉 ..

Please do not try submitting a booking form for a Dawn session if you have already filled one for Dusk. This will result in a ban from seeing me again. I screen thoroughly, so I will know if you try it. Don’t be that guy & choose sides wisely.

Sex Workers & Allies

“I’m just starting in this industry. How can I proceed safely?”

You need to learn (if you haven’t already) how to stand firm on your boundaries and listen to your gut. That gut feeling happens for a reason, and every single time I ignored it, it showed me exactly why it’s there. Do not let money compromise your morals and personal worth; this is your business. There will be someone willing and eager to provide everything you are looking for and more, I promise. The universe has an interesting way of looking out for us, and it never fails.

That being said, you need to learn how to screen and protect yourself from dangerous clients/people. I will gladly discuss safety and screening resources with anyone who can verify they are an in-person service provider (at my discretion, I will ask for confirmation). Please reach out via Twitter/X (preferably from your SW profile) @Littlemissmyah_ , @Bow2Myah, or on Telegram @littlemissmyah

“How do I establish my persona and attract sophisticated experiences?”

One thing I quickly realized in this industry is that looks are subjective. If you want to attract high-status clientele, you need to stand out of the typical “ass, boob, and pretty face” crowd. What can you offer that they cannot? Are you extremely affectionate? Do you have any special talents that can correlate to companionship? Are you adjustable? Great conversationalist? Find what makes you, you, and capitalize on that. There is only one you, make that loud and clear.

Along with diversifying your social media and consistently posting, interact with and create online (and possibly IRL) friendships with fellow working people in your area, especially those in the position you aspire to be in. The most unexpected encounter I have had was with a man who doesn’t even own a smartphone. He happened to search the internet for “Chicago stripping escort” and happened to see me in the results (I was touring Chicago and posted on Twitter asking for strip club recommendations). Long story short, that ended up being my first overnight booking. Having a website allows you to appear in search engines globally, and it looks more professional, too. Most “sophisticated” people use computers for work or use their desktops to book vacations, so assimilating yourself with a familiar interface may make you appear experienced and real.

“I am in the industry and in need of help/support/a friend”

The Sex Work Outreach Program (SWOP USA) is a social justice network that advocates for workplace safety, decriminalization, and overall community for sex workers and adjacent communities. SWOP provides a volunteer-staffed warmline for current and former industry workers, as well as activists and others seeking direct peer support. You may call them at 1-877-776-2004.

The SW Mutual Aid (SWAID) Collective is a fund created by and used for sex workers to discreetly provide financial aid, harm reduction, and other supplies to our community and reduce the barriers marginalized individuals face. 100% of their proceeds go directly to our community and they do not collect or share any private information. SWAID offers $100 instant grants (after verification) to those in need of immediate relief. They may also be able to provide diapers, groceries, and even mobility aides. You can apply for or donate to the SWAID Collective here (link).

The SW Network is a discord server of over 700 industry workers, from photographers & personal assistants to furries & porn stars. This group is extremely progressive and inclusive of all gender identities, sexualities, ages, and walks of life. You must be vetted by a mod before entry, as this is a space for industry workers exclusively. Do not join if you don’t know how to coexist with a multitude of people, we will shame you & the mods will remove you. Download Discord and click here for the group invite link.

“Why is decriminalization preferred over legalization?”

I could go on a ten page rant on this, but I won’t. Let’s put it like this: decriminalizing sex work means removing criminal penalties for adults who consent to partake in this industry. Sex work is work just as any other. Construction workers risk their lives on the side of highways, lumberjacks swing axes and maneuver saws until their shoulder blade gives out. All forms of physical labor are “selling yourself” at an hourly rate, and sex workers should not be criminalized for working. Legalization would put this industry into the government’s hands, which would impose harmful laws and regulations on certain individuals and forms of sex work. It would restrict where we could live, how we advertise, and violate our overall privacy. If you would like to read more, here is a brief PDF explaining the key differences published by the Global Network of Sex Workers Projects (NSWP).

“How can I support the community?

Give sex workers discretion and respect. We all have our reasons for choosing this career, respect that. Do not ask prying questions if someone chooses to confide in you. Never, ever, out a sex worker. It is not your place to share someone else’s sensitive information, and it is quite dangerous. It can affect someone’s everyday life and relationships. It can make people lose housing, or if they have a civilian job. Not everybody plans on “coming out” when they already constantly face prejudice and backlash from society. IT IS NEVER YOUR PLACE TO OUT A SEX WORKER, TO ANYONE.

Understand that if you are not in this industry, you will never truly understand our perspectives. It is good to research, but don’t assume you are all-knowing. Listen to individuals’ experiences and allow them to speak their truth. Consume literature from actual sex workers. Just because you cannot imagine yourself doing this work does not make it inherently “wrong “or “bad,” just like any other job you wouldn’t picture yourself doing.

Be mindful of the language you and those around you use in regards to sex workers. Stereotypes inaccurately represent our entire community, reinforce stigma, and make the world more unsafe for industry workers. Do not be judgmental, and silence people if you hear them shaming a SW. No form of sex work is higher or “lower” than the other. Use your voice.

Treat everyone how you want to be treated.

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Some more links on becoming a better ally:

If you have further questions, please book a consultation with me here (link).